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Most Marriages Dependent on Money and Budgeting |
October is the busiest time of the year for marriages. As Fall kicks into high gear, many new couples find themselves tying the knot. And many of those partners will have met the same way: online.
The number one conflict in marriage is something that couples before marriage rarely fight over - finances (unless they have been living together with one bank account) . One of the reasons finances are such a major problem in marriages is because couples deny there is a problem until it is too late. After that, the blame game begins. In addition, before marriage both individuals handled their finances separately, never being accountable to anyone but themselves. Once you marry, there is accountability for each others actions because everything one person does affects both people.
One way to overcome this issue and burden of finances is to address it before you get married. When you start seriously dating, financial matters is something you should both discuss and analyze in order to be on the same page. If you can create a plan to manage the problem before it arises then you help conquer that problem. You then overcome the odds that you'll be one of the statistics where your romantic adventure in life turned into a money mud-slinging competition.
If you and your partner are working together on money issues, before marriage, then after marriage youll be set to continue work as a team and conquer this monster that destroys so many unions.
For some good money and budgeting advice, visit this site.
The key to riches isnt in how much you earn, but rather in how much you spend. Another key to riches is unconditional love of your partner during the good times and the bad times.
May finances never be a burden in your relationships, |
| Posted on 03 Oct 2008 |
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